When Bilikis Rafiu was with her parents as a young lady, she thought life would be bed of roses for her, unknowingly to her, she would end up as a vulcanizer.
Even though, her uncle whose name was not disclosed is also into the job, but as a woman, her thought was to be an hairdresser, and petty trading to survive.
Like a destiny which follow all human being irrespective of challenges, Bilkis Rafiu later got married to her uncle’s apprenticeship Aremu Olaitan Rafiu few years ago. Bilkis Rafiu, a 35-year-old from Oke Oyi, Ilorin East Local Government, Kwara State happened to be the only female vulcanizer in Kwara State.
She was sighted by our correspondent along Oke-Adini, Kulende area in Ilorin where she was displaying her skills which people generally believed is being done by men on a daily basis.
The mother of four children revealed that her parent could not send her for formal education because she was raised up in a polygamous family in which she was compelled to start selling sachet water, snacks, soft drinks on the streets in other to raise money to assist her mother as the trend in many Nigerian States.
Recalling how she started her adventurous life before delving into vulcanizing work, Bilkis Rafiu revealed that she was an apprehentice in Lokoja, Kogi State under her elder sister who had a saloon in which she served for almost ten years.
“I never believed that I would go into vulcanizing work as a woman, but when I came back from Lokoja where I had served under my sister, I met a man who is my current husband and he introduced the work to me,” She said
Bilkis Rafiu after she had developed interest for vulcanizing, she accepted to learn the work which only took her six months for her to be perfect.
Throughout the period in which Bilkis Rafiu was learning this trade, she did not pay any money to Aremu Rafiu Olaitan who she eventually got married to.
“Then, I used to observe how my husband do his work, and I used to see how many motorists used to patronise him in which I later developed interest for the job.
“I approached him if I could be under him, and I even thought that he would scold me, but he accepted me and encouraged me not knowing that he would later become the father of my children,” she said.
Even though, Bilkis’ parents were unable to send her to school, her father was been nonchalant, but her mother kicked against what she chose to do as a means of livelihood.
“My father has many wives, so he does not care about anyone, but my mother was against this job when I started as she claimed that the work is meant for men.
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“The third day when I started learning this work, I had a serious cut in my left hand when I was trying to remove a tyre from the rim, and it took me three weeks before the wound healed up.
“After recuperating, I told my mother that I would go back to vulcanizing work, and to my surprise, she agreed since that was what I wanted,” she explained.
After a while, Bilkis Rafiu decided to start the vulcanizing work at the front of the house where she and her husband lives and she revealed that she never regretted learning the work.
“When I started this work on my own on full time basis, a lot of people were asking me the reason why I decided to be a vulcanizer, and what I told them was I wanted something different as a woman.
“There are so many ladies who are into tailoring, hair dressing and so on, but I thought this work would bring a lot of sales for me considering my status as a woman and I am happy up till now because I make up to Five thousand naira everyday from this job.
“Even my husband who also has his own shop does not make the sales I use to make here and for the past five years that I have started this work, I have never had any cause to regret doing this job,” she stressed.
When asked whether she would love any of her children to also go into vulcanizing, she said: “Me and my husband are using the money we are making to send our children to school since we never had the chance to go, but all our children will also know how to do this but it is not necessary that they practice it.
Challenges
Bilkis Rafiu said some male customers do assault her sexually claiming that some men would seek for her phone numbers after she might have done the job brought to her. Sometimes, she said she would receive strange calls to come over to hotel.
“There was a man who collected my phone number after I had repaired his car tyres and he later called me to come over to meet him in an hotel, I realised he was into another thing, and I told him not to call me for such illegitimate act again.
“So, that are some of the challenges I do receive on this job, but I am not bothered because life itself is a challenge,” she said to NAIJ.com.
Bilkis Rafiu stressed that she earns a minimum sum of N5,000 on daily basis, some part of the realised funds were normally used to take care of her children, savings, and to also attend to all other needs.
“I am happy doing this job because I use to make at least 5,000 naira daily which is alright for me rather than going into labouring work that could attract assault.
Husband’s Reaction
Mr Aremu Rafiu Olaitan, a 40-year-old who is from Ilorin said that his wife has being a fortress for him adding that he had never regretted marrying her.
“Some people do abuse me that she was doing the job so that I can’t marry second wife, but I thank God that we are able to cater for our children, planning ahead for our family.
“Today, I have two motorcycles and I don’t care what people are saying again, after all, I am able to discharge my responsibilities as husband in my extended family and I have never owed anyone.
“Every morning, I use to go to my own stand, and my wife would be at home to do her work and also to cater for the children and prepare our home needs, I support her chosen career, and I am happy she is doing well for herself and the family,” he explained.
Customer’s Remarks
A motorist Rasak Akinola who came to repair his tyre as at the time when NAIJ.com was speaking with Bilkis Rafiu, he said he was surprised to discovered a woman of her nature can remove car tyres, repaired it and re-fix it without much stress.
“This show that what a man can do, a woman can do better and I believe that there are many people that would share the same views with me on this,”.
Another customer named Wuraola Ajao, said she felt challenged when she saw Bilkis for the first time doing the work supposedly reserved for men.
“Since the first day I saw her, I have been patronising her anytime I have trouble with my tyres so as to appreciate her for what she does. Even sometimes, I do tell people about her.
A legal Practitioner, Barrister Lawal Akanbi while speaking with NAIJ.com disclosed that there was nothing wrong for any woman doing what people perceived to be men’s work adding that Bilkis’ trade is unusual as a woman.
“What matter most is that the job she is doing must be legitimate in which people can associate with in our community. We have seen women who assist their husbands in robbery, crimes, selling helms and at the end of the day, they endanger lives of their children. So, I believe she is not doing what is wrong.”
Source: NAIJ